I think I was shooting a .22 even before I learned to ride a bike. My dad used to have me shooting cans in the backyard and really hammer home the safety rules. Those early lessons really stayed with me especially things like respect, patience and staying focused. Guns were just a normal thing when I was a kid, did anyone else grow up like that?
Sure. I was born in 1950 and things have certainly changed over time. My grandfather ran a 2,000-acre cattle ranch for absentee owners for about 50-years, and it grew in size to 3,000-acres by then. They would come out to visit for about 2-weeks per year. I always thought of it as Grandpa's ranch.
I learned the rules of safely handling firearms and how to shoot at a young age. One of my favorite memories was when I was about 5 and Grandpa had set up a bunch of cans for my older brother and I to shoot at. We were using .22's of course, and then Grandma brought out her Grandfathers .45 (might have been a .44). Her Grandfather had been a Texas Ranger when Pancho Villa was raiding the homesteads and ranches in Texas. I really wanted to shoot it like my older brother had. Grandpa had me sit down with my elbows on my knees and holding the single action pistol with both hands. Before he handed it to me he told me that it had a hair trigger so be sure to keep your fingers out of the trigger guard until you're ready to shoot..
I did that and when I was ready, I barely touched the trigger and it fired. The recoil rocked me onto my back with the pistol pointing straight up in the air. I pointed the pistol back at the hill and had Grandpa take it out of my hands before I got up wearing this HUGE smile. That was the last time I ever used a "sit on your butt stance" although in later years I'd often sit on my foot while shooting from one knee because recoil can't knock you over from that position.
When I was about 10, Grandma was just really upset about the woodpeckers around the ranch house. we had a bunch of bit Live Oak and White Oak trees around there and the darn woodpeckers were pecking holes in her house instead of the trees. So we'd go out there with the .22's we used for target practice using .22-shorts and shoot the woodpeckers. Took a while but eventually the woodpeckers stayed away from the house. They would fly from tree to tree in a 3-tree circle at first, but eventually they just stayed away or they flew over to the owner's cottage about 50-yards away or so.
Grandpa also had trouble with ground squirrels. He would plant Oat Hay and Alfalfa for cattle feed as well as some wheat crops for market. The ground squirrels would eat or knock down a surprising amount of all of those crops and Grandkids were always coming up to the ranch. So he started providing us with a box each of .22-shorts and one of his four different .22's to use. He could only poison them once every 3-years or they would get immune to the poison, so he equipped and set loose his Grandkids to act as "ground squirrel extermination teams". That's where we really go the safety rules ingrained in us and became very comfortable handling those .22's.
When we turned 12, earned our Hunter's Safety Certificate, and bought our first hunting license; then he would take us deer hunting. He had a number of deer rifles and the one I usually used was a Savage 250-3000 rifle. He took me out to fire it and check the accuracy on it. Ammo came in 20-cont boxes and was expensive so unless we ran into a problem, 3 to 4 shots would confirm that it was still sighted in. It had a peep sight, which I liked a lot. AND, I did get a deer on the last day I was going to be staying at the Ranch during deer season. That's when I found out I REALLY like venison liver, which I had for dinner that evening.
By the time I was 14, I was driving Grandpa's Willy's Jeep around the ranch instead of walking or riding horses. It was a 3-speed manual stick of course and had a button to push to spin up the starter. One day, he traded an old beat up (and skunked) step-side pickup for an M1-Carbine and added that to his "arsenal". I found a supply of hard ball M1-carbine ammo for about 50¢ more than a box of .22's, so I bought those and started using his M1-Carbine for squirrel and varmints. Then I bought some soft-nose ammo so I could hunt deer with it and I usually used that for ground squirrels instead of the .22.
About the time I was 16 and had an after-school job, So one weekend, I asked Grandpa if I could buy that M1-Carbine from him. He looked at me; said, "No", which was disheartening. Then he said he'd planned to leave a firearm with each of his grandkids when he passed, but didn't see the advantage in doing that. So he told me I could take it home with me that day. I've had it ever since and killed a fair amount of deer with it as well as ground squirrels and coyotes. I've also killed a LOT of cans and poked lots of holes in targets. It's a great little gun; easy to carry through the brush-filled foothills and mountains, and deadly accurate for taking deer out to ~200-yards. I rarely had to shoot more than 100-yards with it, which is good, because the front sight would almost entirely obscure a deer out around 200-yards.
I had 6 brother's and sisters although my older brother passed in 2016, and all of them learned how to shoot and hunt at Grandpa's ranch. Also learned how to fish on the two lakes at the ranch, ride a horse; work cattle with the horses; run a trap line; dress a deer, cook "Buck Hunter Eggs" (scrambled eggs with Worcestershire sauce and Tabasco sauce); how to swing an axe and a sledge hammer correctly (TV is terrible at it), build a fence, sink a deadman to keep the fence tight, light and maintain a fire to heat the house in the morning, bank it at night so there are coals in the morning, and probably a lot more things that I just take for granted. But firearms were just a natural part of life and you learned how to use it correctly like you would with any other tool. I passed on that tradition with my kids too, but it looks like it will go no further. I have one son in England and another one in Australia, so no guns there. My daughter, lives in NH (I'm in WA) and although she learned to shoot gun safety and how to shoot before either of the boys did, she has decided she really doesn't like guns anymore.
Like I said at the start, "things have certainly changed over time."